Researchers asked people considering whether to end their relationship what factors someone in their shoes might weigh when making the decision. Respondents came up with a number of reasons, which researchers classified into 50 common themes. Here are the top 10 pros and cons people suggested.
| Reasons to stay | Reasons to leave | |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Emotional intimacy | Partner's personality |
| 2 | Emotional investment | Breach of trust |
| 3 | Family duty | Partner withdrawal |
| 4 | Partner's personality | External reason |
| 5 | Enjoyment | Physical distance |
| 6 | Emotional security | Conflict |
| 7 | Physical intimacy | Incompatibility |
| 8 | Financial benefits | Emotional distance |
| 9 | Compatibility | Lack of validation |
| 10 | Concern for partner | Lack of financial benefits |
